Behavioral Disorders
Evaluation and treatment for Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), Conduct Disorder, and disruptive behavior in children and teens
When a child's defiance, anger, or rule-breaking goes well beyond typical developmental behavior — when it's constant, escalating, and straining every relationship in the household — something more than normal limit-testing is likely at work. Behavioral disorders are real clinical conditions, not character flaws, and they are not the result of bad parenting. They respond to the right kind of help.
At Help For Your Child, behavioral evaluations are conducted by Dr. John Carosso, Psy.D., a licensed clinical psychologist with more than three decades of experience working with children whose behavior has pushed families to their limit. Because Dr. Robert Lowenstein, M.D. practices alongside Dr. Carosso, psychiatric factors that drive behavioral problems — ADHD, mood disorders, anxiety — can be assessed and addressed in the same practice.
Understanding Behavioral Disorders
The term "behavioral disorder" covers a range of conditions characterized by persistent patterns of defiant, aggressive, or antisocial behavior that are severe enough to impair a child's functioning at home, at school, or in relationships. The most common conditions we evaluate and treat at HFYC include: • Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) — a persistent pattern of angry or irritable mood, argumentative and defiant behavior toward authority figures, and vindictiveness. ODD is the most frequently diagnosed behavioral disorder in children. • Conduct Disorder (CD) — a more serious pattern of behavior that violates the rights of others or major social rules: aggression toward people or animals, destruction of property, deceitfulness, or serious rule violations. CD requires careful evaluation and early intervention. • Intermittent Explosive Disorder (IED) — recurrent, impulsive outbursts of aggression or rage that are disproportionate to the situation and not better explained by another condition. • Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD) — severe, chronic irritability and frequent, intense temper outbursts in children, often misidentified as bipolar disorder. Behavioral disorders almost never exist in isolation. The majority of children with ODD or Conduct Disorder also have ADHD, anxiety, depression, learning disabilities, or trauma histories. Identifying and treating those underlying or co-occurring conditions is often the key to unlocking real behavioral change — which is why a thorough evaluation comes before any treatment plan.
How Behavioral Disorders Affect Families
Living with a child who has ODD or a related behavioral disorder is genuinely exhausting. Every transition becomes a battle. Every "no" triggers a power struggle. Mealtimes, bedtimes, homework, and getting out the door in the morning can feel like navigating a minefield. Siblings walk on eggshells. Parents find themselves cycling between frustration, guilt, and grief over the family life they expected to have. Over time, the constant conflict erodes parent-child relationships and creates a negative cycle: the child's behavior produces harsh or inconsistent responses, which intensifies the child's defiance, which produces more conflict. Breaking that cycle — not by demanding compliance, but by changing the relational dynamics around behavior — is at the heart of what effective treatment does. At school, behavioral disorders often manifest as defiance toward teachers, difficulty with peers, frequent disciplinary referrals, and in some cases suspension or expulsion. Without appropriate support, these children fall further behind academically and socially, and the behavioral patterns become more entrenched. The good news, and it is real: with the right evaluation, the right treatment approach, and consistent application of evidence-based strategies, families see meaningful change. Children with ODD and related disorders can and do learn to manage their responses, repair relationships, and succeed.
Warning Signs to Watch For
Frequent arguing with adults — disproportionate to the situation
Active defiance or refusal to comply with rules and requests
Deliberately annoying or provoking others
Blaming others for their own mistakes or misbehavior
Easily annoyed or unusually quick to anger
Frequent temper outbursts or rage episodes
Vindictive or spiteful behavior — seeking revenge for perceived slights
Difficulty accepting rules or authority figures
Aggression toward siblings, peers, or adults
Pattern of lying, stealing, or rule-breaking beyond typical childhood behavior
Our Treatment Approach
Comprehensive Evaluation
Dr. Carosso conducts a thorough clinical assessment to confirm the diagnosis, identify the specific behavioral pattern and its severity, and screen comprehensively for co-occurring conditions. ADHD is present in a majority of children with ODD, and anxiety, depression, and learning disabilities are also common. Understanding the full picture — including any trauma history or environmental stressors — is essential before treatment begins.
Parent Management Training (PMT)
Research consistently shows that Parent Management Training is the most effective intervention for ODD — more so than working with the child alone. PMT teaches parents evidence-based strategies for responding to defiant behavior in ways that reduce conflict rather than escalate it: how to set clear, consistent expectations; how to apply consequences effectively; how to give instructions the child is more likely to follow; and how to build positive connection that reduces the child's need to fight for control.
Individual Therapy
Children with behavioral disorders often have significant deficits in emotional regulation, frustration tolerance, problem-solving, and social skills — deficits that drive much of the problematic behavior. Our therapists work directly with the child using evidence-based approaches including CBT and collaborative problem-solving to build these skills. For older children and teens, individual therapy also addresses the shame, low self-esteem, and fractured relationships that frequently accompany a history of behavioral problems.
Psychiatric Evaluation & Medication (when appropriate)
Medication does not treat ODD directly. However, when ADHD, anxiety, or depression is driving or amplifying the behavioral symptoms — which is the case for many children — treating those conditions psychiatrically can produce significant behavioral improvement. Dr. Lowenstein evaluates each child individually to determine whether a psychiatric condition is contributing to the behavioral picture and whether medication could support the broader treatment plan.
School & Family Coordination
Behavioral strategies only work when they are applied consistently across all settings. We work closely with school teams to ensure that the approach being used at home is reflected in the classroom — through behavioral support plans, IEPs, 504 Plans, or teacher consultation. We also support families in navigating school systems that may have become adversarial, helping to rebuild collaborative relationships around the child's needs.
Your Child Deserves Support
If you recognize these signs in your child, reach out to us today. We're here to help.